It’s funny because I used to LOVE to be right. To prove another wrong.
But my definition of “right” has changed dramatically.
I believe Dr. Wayne Dyer said “If you have a choice to be kind or right – choose kind because kind is always right.”
Right to me today means I am not holding onto any illusion that another has hurt me. My thinking hurts me…not others.
I have also realized something quite profound regarding love and fear. They seem to be best friends. Or related somehow….maybe cousins.
When I fear or feel someone hurt me or can hurt me…love is buried beneath all of it. If I did not love them so very much I would not even HAVE that fear or misguided hurt feeling.
The more I experience and feel these things the more free I am becoming.
Thank you god.