
There are many reasons why I go to recovery meetings. But the one that stood out last night was regarding perspective.
When I sit in a meeting and all of the days worries fall off of me…I listen.
I listen to others share their pain, their joy and their indifference. I listen to people who are seeking to feel better and/or to comfort another with their experiences.
Last night an addict named Joe shared how he was once homeless – shoeless and walking the streets spending every dime he could get his hands on his addiction.
He didn’t have shoes…and he would beg, borrow and steal to get his drugs.
Joe has been clean for some time now. His said his life is exactly what he dreamed of as a child. He has a beautiful wife, a home and three healthy children. He told us that as a kid all he wanted was to be a dad. And today he is one…a clean one.
He also shared how he was in the grocery store the other day and he had a fit that toothpaste was $4.00 dollars!!
This made us all laugh…he had come from not even having shoes and spending insane amounts of money on drugs…to being upset over the cost of toothpaste.
He chuckled and said “Luxury problems!”
Wow.
I agree with him.
That sounds crazy!
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That toothpaste is 4 dollars! I agree – lol♥️
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Sounds like Joe offered hope for many others by sharing his lived experiences. That takes courage! Nice share.
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He did and yes it was good for all of us ❤️❤️
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Perspective is a very profound thing Danielle, it can shake our boots…or our toothpaste. Building that wisdom in us all. Great post dear lady, but may we all, at least, afford a little toothpaste 😀❤️🙏🏽
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Amen Mark! I like my toothpaste too!!❤️❤️
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Lovely story. I wonder if he described what enabled him to change?
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He did not share that in this particular meeting but he has in the past…and it’s the same experience as all addicts – just different circumstances- we just had enough and surrendered 💗🙏💗
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😀 The wonders of recovery!
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Amazing right!!❤️🙏💗
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I had a chuckle reading Joe’s story but also a feeling of sadness thinking about his journey. It’s so wonderful you have this group to support each other, Danielle.
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It has saved my life ❤️🙏💗
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Excellent reminder, Grace. When J and I get uptight over little stuff we’ll remind each other, this is “white people problems ” or “first world problems.” Perspective is EVERYTHING! Thanks for the reminder.
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You’re welcome my friend ❤️🙏❤️
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It’s the same with health. All other problems, especially monetary ones, pale in comparison when health becomes a concern. Since arthritis in my knees fell into the “severe” category…according to the latest X-rays…all other issues seem trivial. All I want to do now is walk my dog without pain.
I am so glad Joe attained his dream of being a great Dad. We need all of those we can get!
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Thats such a great point about our health!! When a disc in my back ruptured all I wanted was to walk without pain…nothing else mattered!!❤️🙏❤️
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