
Today I woke up tired. My body has been running around with my two young charges all week. George is 7yrs old, Clay is 5 and I am 48.
It has been school break and we have not stopped. The boys both play hockey so there have been games, tournaments and then us playing floor hockey in the garage.
I finally beat George in a game 5 to 4. What is amazing about this is that George took it like a champ!
In the past he would have come up with any and every excuse as to why my winning goal did not count. But this time he didn’t.
To be honest I was shocked that my shot went in! The game was tied at 4-4 and I had every intention of letting him win…for the sake of peace on earth.
But my shot got past Clay and George was ok with that.
I was so happy for him that he was ok…and that he was not beating himself up for not winning.
My victory was not the game. The victory was seeing the growth in George.
****side note – later that day it was discovered George had stolen 8 dollars from Clays room…ha! One lesson at a time I guess 🙂
Very good lesson you gave him Danielle, a hug, congratulations in being proud of him for his acceptance and non reaction…only to squirm inside because of what he had done. Was it a false acceptance that he gave everyone so that next time a game goes against him, will he revert and become angry as usual…or will he remember how proud you were of him for being a good sport…and he would rather that instead. Great post dear lady, your love is showing, a victory sown…and very well too. Now a nanna nap so you are ready for game two 🤣❤️🙏🏽
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Oh my gosh I slept soooo good last night – Eve snuggled by my side – I played hard this week 🙂 and rested well!!❤️❤️
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Great to read, and well done on your score… and yes, those lessons come in steps… 🙂 Have a great weekend… We’ve all had them 😀
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Thank you Sue ❤️🙏❤️I used to get so upset with George- he would cheat ,argue, complain, quit the game if it wasn’t going his way. So this victory was such a sweet thing to witness- he was cool as a cucumber about it – not an ounce of frustration. It was worth the wait and the struggles to see it happen ❤️❤️
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Wonderful… Showing he is growing up 🙂 and learning I am sure much from yourself as well ❤
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Sportsmanship is a tough one with young kids so this is a huge win! Congrats to all.
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Yessssss it was rewarding for all!! ❤️❤️thank you Ab
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Maybe he chocked it up to karma, with him still in the lead, lol! 😀
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Hahaha!! Who knows what George’s brain is up to!! Lol 😂 ❤️
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Now that’s funny!
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